American Values Alliance | Practical voice for progressive valuesA brief but thoughtful discussion of the unfortunate events surrounding the FLDS church in Texas appears in this “Sightings” piece (Note from BlogMistress: link fixed).
If child sexual abuse has been occurring, then by all means Texas authorities have done the right thing to step in. (And reports alleging that there are 14-year old girls pregnant by 50-year old men would seem to confirm that what most of us would consider abuse has been taking place.)
But I offer this for discussion: as the author of the “Sightings” piece suggests, do we not have an inclination to equate “different” with “wrong”? Would authorities be as quick to step in and remove over 400 children from their homes if the alleged abuse had taken place in a more mainstream church? For example, we now know for a fact that instances of child abuse have occurred in certain Catholic churches in America, in some cases for years, and while there have been efforts to prosecute those guilty of the abuse, there was never an effort by authorities to remove all the child members of the relevant churches from their homes, and there was certainly never an effort to completely shut down the Catholic Church.
Do I think a 14-year old girl, who has been taught all her young life that bringing children into the world is her highest calling has been brainwashed? You betcha. By my set of beliefs, she has.
But it isn’t much of a stretch for me to also think that a 14-year old boy who has been taught all his young life to respect and trust the priest in his local parish church has also been brainwashed.
A possible point, it seems to me, is that one man’s brainwashing could well be another man’s faith, and I am not sure that what has happened in Texas doesn’t have as much to do with those people’s difference as it does concern for their children. How many people didn’t breathe a sigh of relief at the sight of them being herded onto buses from a local Baptist church?
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You have a point, Lalita, and I don’t disagree with you. But when I look at and listen to those FLDS women on TV, I see women who appear to be pious, submissive, and yes, probably “brainwashed” by a male-dominated religion—all of which I find deplorable, but none of which is illegal. Moreover, it is not illegal for a religious institution to be male-dominated; if it were, all the mainstream ones would be in trouble too.
My only question is whether authorities would have felt comfortable being so aggressive if the church in question was a mainstream one and if we didn’t consider the FLDS church a “cult” because its members have chosen to live a very different life from what most of us would choose. Suffice to say, I doubt it.
Having said that, if child abuse is a part of that life, then of course Texas authorities have done the right thing: the law is being broken and religious freedom is over for the FLDS. (P.S. Thanks for fixing that link.)
Look back 150 years ago. There were also young girls who were raised, all their lives to believe that the favors of an older white man were to be sought after. They were slaves.
Just like any other cult, these children in Texas were kept cloistered from information that would have exposed the truth: they were being raped, pure and simple. Watching the endless, nauseating coverage of the women who, when asked if their children were being abused, remarked "We love our children and they love us. Could we hurt them if we love them?"
The answer is "Yes, honey. Otherwise loving parents do it all the time."
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Lalita L. Amos, CRC
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